The servers you are connecting to through AOL are, sadly, performing very
poorly these past few days. Have not heard any reason for this. As a former
AOL user, I celebrate the day I switched to OE. You can use it to search,
delete, highlight, and any number of other tricks, including fonts. The
readability of the blue page you are using now is very poor, and there are
all those slow-loading pages. Further, it cannot remember, long-term, what
you have read.
Please tell us why you hesitate to use OE. So many knowledgable and
intelligent folks do use OE, despite being aware of the many other options
available.
PS: If you choose to boycott newsgroups, that is solely your loss.