Hey John,
Going back to xp is the best thing you could ever do I highly suggest it. If
you want to make xp look like vista:
1. you could get WindowBlinds 5.5, Its $20.00 but is worth every penny.
Check out the trial at
http://www.stardock.com/ and check out the products
section and you can get skins for it at http//
www.wincustomize.com/
2. you could search Google for "how to make windows xp look like Windows
Vista" and look around for themes, sidebar, and stuff. Also you can get
Windows Media Player 11 for xp now and also alot of other vista apps so check
out the microsoft website for those.
I hope my advice helped you.