-Ok, I've read all of your posts- and an idiot I am NOT. I was trying to
lighten things up- LOL in my face there, hmm?? I will tell you that I've had
illness and have what's called "fibro fog"..it comes with having
fibromyalgia, so sometimes, unfortunately I do not think clearly, but only
realize after the fact that this was the case in some situations. It's quite
embarrassing.
I will explain just a bit about why I have now spent one YEAR working on my
website, - but take a look - how many posts have I made here? Perhaps one,
perhaps six months or a year ago. You don't know one bit how many times I've
gone to the BV forum to help myself, ADAM.
And just suppose, ADAM that the guy you (sorry DP & Malke)- did call a
know-nothing blah blah blah was my fiancee or something. Actually, he IS a
friend, and has helped me on MANY occasions. Perhaps he's wrong here, but
I'm not going to give him hell if it turns out he is. There is a lot he DOES
know.
I have been given wrong information in BV before as well as lack of
informaton - (there's the blaming again! oh my.). I needed a website because
my only chance of "making it" is to work at home. This was a builder I chose
BECAUSE it advertised "you could have your website up in as little as 1/2 an
hour"..something like that. It said I did NOT need to know html or any other
special things. Of course, I know now that one needs quite a bit of web
building knowledge if they want to make any site work, through a
build-it-yourself program or whatever else. I could have been just an
ordinary person who knew nothing but how to type, from the way the ad read.
And true, I knew NOTHING of building a site. Vodahost, in their tutorials
did not tell me many, many things- just a couple examples- of their own
mistakes: once I had ALL my pages finished, someone, a forum friend,
suggested I use php for my menu, so I changed all that. Voda never mentioned
it (of course I have NOT looked at each and every post. In my opinion, it
would save people much work and assure linking is done properly (I love
it!), and I believe they should have run a tutorial on that.
Also, they did not tell me, once I changed everything to php that some
fonts were not compatible with the web, and of course I'd written absolotely
everything in the wrong fonts. Now in that case, in my opinion, that should
have been written LOUD and CLEAR before anyone started building anything. So
I know they have been wrong. But they, too are human. And believe me, if I
knew this would end up taking me a year, and I'm STILL not published, I would
have found SOME way to pay someone, or not tried at all. I would bet almost
every do-it-yourself program assumes people know more than they really do.
If you went into the forum, you would see that there ARE lots of people just
like me (i.e.never took a class in computers.) But, SSD doesn't offer me
much compensation, what can I say.
I have had two other computers this year, thanks to my kid spilling his coke
on one, and another dropping off its stand (not my fault) - and I moved the
BV info I'd saved on a hard drive over to two new computers. Then borrowed a
computer, which was so old and slow, I just caved and bought a new one. And
of course, now everything has Vista (oops I mean everything I saw.) The BV
files transferred fine from the external drive I had, over to ALL THREE
previous computers, without ANY problem. So I felt had a logical reason for
"blaming" Vista. Actually I said VISTA SEEMS TO...but regardless of my
phrasing, I shouldn't have jumped the gun, but I do believe at least some of
this is a Vista problem. If I'm wrong, so be it. I wouldn't know where to
write my apology, not that anyone would read it if I did.
When I look through others who write here, not everyone is brilliant. I'm
sorry- I truly meant that apology I wrote in a previous post- but I guess you
wanted to dig into me after that, Adam. Fine.
And also for Adam, who I quote here:
"hi, I'm a idiot when it comes to research, but I want
to find a cure for Cancer anyway, can somebody walk me through the
steps I have to do?
Why don't you go get a near-terminal illness and come back from it so you
learn how to treat people. I DID have cancer stage 3 no less.. It's nothing
EVEN CLOSE to the kind of question I asked here. It seems that more and more
people on this planet have just decided they are better than others for no
good reason. No wonder there's a song about being taught to be cynical.
Adam, you need to take a look at the way you treat people. And KNOW that
what you give out will always come back at you.
My thanks to those of you who were understanding and forgivening. Feldman,
Paul R., Malke, DP (did I miss someone?)- believe me, I've gone to the BV
forum more times than I can count, know it well, (oops better rephrase that-
I know much the basics, and some but not nearly all) and know that THIS was
something people there just simply didn't have an answer for. And before I
came here, I contacted BV Support, Toshiba, and Microsoft Support directly.
EVERYONE blamed the other. My problem is not in how to add templates, but
some could be the path items. I'm not afraid to admit that I do not
understand paths, for sure. Do any of you (nice) gentlemen know a home study
program that would help me? I think one of you mentioned something but can't
seem to find it now) I know I do need one, as my site became much bigger than
I intended, and I plan, once it's up and running, to make it even double the
size it is now, if not larger.
After coming into this forum, I even started a new page from scratch, added
new photos I'd never used, put in my font (verdana) and did a preview of what
it would look like- this time, my colors were there, in the proper positions,
as were my pictures, but fonts were stillo two or three sizes smaller. I went
into the Windows toolbar and ticked VIEW and changed fonts to "larger", as
well. They still would not print properly on the web, just in my building
pages- oh yes, in HOTMAIL and in MYSPACE, too. So I know this is not a
compatibility issue when it comes to the font problems, at least.
I will call Microsoft again and ask about the "3x you're out" deal. Will let
you know when I'm SURE of that answer.
Anyway, I hope all of you have a great day. As bad as one can be for me,
insults, bad health and all, I make it a point to find something or do
something so I can say "this day was GOOD." And now I'm just going to forget
about the web and watch Zorro with my boy for the fourth time! (and imagine
who I'd enjoy using his sword on.)
In BV, I made quite a few good internet friends. I hope that happens here.
Someday perhaps I will.
P.S. If any of you DO know someone who (soon)has the time to help me (as I
mentioned in my first post there are "regulars" in BV), not necessarily all
at once, please let me know. I need to find it again, but did find an icon
for "information sharing" which would allow someone of my choosing to look
into my computer to see what's going on. Everything personal is in my
external drive. (wink.)