automatically
i must say this b4 we go on that i am connected to a netgear dg834g which
the firmware i upgraded seems to be faulty
So, you need both your desktop and notebook set up for automatic as you
call it. If they are both set up for that then there's a problem in the
netgear router or there's something that needs to be set on each wireless
cord. I don't do windows or wireless. If all else fails, switch to static
IPs for both machines. As an example since I always use static.
Netgear router gateway IP 192.168.0.1
Desktop IP 192.168.0.2
machine 2 192.168.0.3
machine 3 etc.
Most routers will also allow a range of DHCP addresses, like
192.168.0.100-253. Check your router manual.
Netmask should be 255.255.255.0
And you'll need to assign DNS addresses on each machine. That's your IP's
(Internet providers) DNS addresses.