You need to set a registry key - see below for an MSDN topic.
1. Strictly speaking, no. But there is WAB API which looks exactly like
Extended MAPI (see WABOpen on MSDN)
2. Yes, if you have Notes MAPI providers (store, Address Book, etc)
installed so that Outlook can connect to a Notes DB. If not, you can use the
Notes API - it is fairly powerful, but very low level and much uglier than
Extended MAPI IMHO.
Dmitry Streblechenko (MVP)
http://www.dimastr.com/
OutlookSpy - Outlook, CDO
and MAPI Developer Tool
Explicitly Mapping MAPI Calls to MAPI DLLs
In some cases, MAPI calls made from a particular DLL or executable file need
to be routed to the system MAPI DLL (called Mapi32x.dll) or another custom
MAPI DLL even though the default mail client supports the call. Such DLLs or
executables files can be listed as string registry values in the
HKLM\Software\Microsoft\Windows Messaging Subsystem\MSMapiApps key. The
registry value for these keys can be empty or identify a mail client key
that resides under HKLM\Software\Clients\Mail.
When the stub library resolves a MAPI call, it first enumerates the DLL and
executable files listed under the HKLM\Software\Microsoft\Windows Messaging
Subsystem\MSMapiApps key checking to see if the DLL or executable file is
currently in process. If there is a match, the stub library gets the string
value. If the value is the empty string, the stub library routes the call to
the system MAPI DLL, Mapi32x.dll. If the string is not empty, the stub uses
the string value to find the key below HKLM\Software\Clients\Mail where it
can find the appropriate registry value to dispatch the call, one of
DLLPath, DLLPathEx, or MSIComponentID values. For example:
HKLM\Software\Microsoft\Windows Messaging Subsystem\MSMapiApps::exchng32.exe
= ""
(route call directly to Mapi32x.dll)
HKLM\Software\Microsoft\Windows Messaging Subsystem\MSMapiApps::msspc32.dll
= "Microsoft Outlook"
(route call using Microsoft Outlook key under HKLM\Software\Clients\Mail)