How to know if someone deleted you from their MSN?

[Guest]

Hello everyone... I want to know how would i know if someone deleted me
(other than asking that person directly)?

I know how to check if someone added you on their list by going to Tools ->
Options -> View. But does that list update itself (ie: if after a while,
someone who initlally added you has now deleted you, would that person's name
now be off the list as those who has added me to their list)? In other
words, does that list under "Tools -> Privacy -> View" update itself
continuously as people add and delete you?? Or does the person's name stay
there forever as long as that person once added you to their list (regardless
of whether they've deleted you now or later)

2nd question is... can anyone explain to me why this happens:

Ok, I know when someone has a MSN space and i right click their name and go
to "View Profile"... their space opens in a new window. In addition, I also
find that if i right click their name and instead, go to "View This Person's
Contact Card", there'll be a link to their space (by clicking on the title of
that person's space shown on the card).
But my problem here is, I know some people have a Space (ie: their Space
pops up in another window if i right click their name and go to "View
Profile"). However, when i right click and go to view their contact card...
their contact card will appear but i will see the word "connecting"
underneath their MSN nickname (as if trying to load the link), but
eventually, the title of their space does not appear on the contact card.
What does that mean? Does that mean that the person deleted me so that i
don't have a link to that space (unless i go to "veiw profile")? Or is it
because that person did not put anything up in the Blog/Photos/Lists/Music
sections (except for the Profile section) so MSN does not give a link to that
person's space on the Contacts Card?

Are these indicators that someone deleted me? or does anyone know some other
indicators that means someone deleted you?

Thanks a million!!

 

[John Barnett MVP]

In Tools>Options>Privacy>View you can view everyone who has you on their
contact list. If the person you think has deleted you has his/her name in
the View window right click on it, if, in the drop down menu, you see the
option Delete Contact then the other person has deleted you from their
contact list. The Delete Contact option then allows you to delete the
contact details from your contact list. If you only see Add to Contact list
(if the person is already on your contact list this option will be greyed
out) then the other person still has you on their contact list.

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[Guest]

Ah... thank-you very much John!

In Tools>Options>Privacy>View you can view everyone who has you on their
contact list. If the person you think has deleted you has his/her name in
the View window right click on it, if, in the drop down menu, you see the
option Delete Contact then the other person has deleted you from their
contact list. The Delete Contact option then allows you to delete the
contact details from your contact list. If you only see Add to Contact list
(if the person is already on your contact list this option will be greyed
out) then the other person still has you on their contact list.

--
John Barnett MVP
Associate Expert
http://xphelpandsupport.mvps.org

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either expressed or implied, is made in relation to the accuracy,
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[Guest]

This message is totaly unclear to me. Maybe someone with a better unstanding
of english then me (when its there foreign language) might understand this,
but i dont.

 

[John Barnett MVP]

Comic, Open Messenger, click Tools on the main toolbar and then click
Options. Once the options window appears click the Privacy option. in the
Privacy Window You now see two boxes Alow List and Block List. Right click
on the person who you think may have deleted you from his/her contact list.
A drop down menu will appear witht he following options:

Add to contact list
Move to block list
Delete

Only one of these options should be available for you to use. the other
options should be 'greyed' out. If the Delete option isn't greyed out, i.e,
it is in bold black the your contact has deleted you. By pressing the delete
option you will then also delete him/her from your contact list.

I hope this is a little clearer.

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John Barnett MVP
Associate Expert
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click the View button. This now produces a list of people who have you added
to their contact list. Right click on the name of the person you want to
know if he has deleted you from his list. A drop down menu will appear