You can use all three slots as normal DDR memory, i.e. without the dual memory feature. The dual memory feature is dubious at best. Many times there is no performance improvement with it enabled. It does not work properly unless the memory and chipset are compatible, which is often not the case.
Untrue, there is no such thing as "compatible" in this
context.
The chipset was obviously, already compatible as the board
supports it. There is no "wrong" memory choice that could
run in single channel mode but not dual channel, BUT, if the
memory bus were barely stable in single channel mode, it
could be just as instable or a little moreso in dual mode.
One does not have to choose single-channel mode to use all
three slots, nor do they have to have modules of the same
chips, same SPD programmings, or even the same size!
For example, unless the bios is buggy, on nForce2 you can
run the following:
Slot 1 - 1GB CAS3
Slot 2 - 256MB CAS2.5
slot 3 - 512MB CAS2
It would be necessary for the bios to work properly to set
CAS3 as it is the highest common timing. If slot 1 and 2
are same channel, you would have 512MB per channel for dual
channel mode and the slower single-channel access for the
remaining 768MB.
Another example-
I have an nForce2 board that scored the following in Sisoft
Sandra 2005 Memory Bandwidth Benchmark
(example is for the purposes of relative comparison only,
not maximal value because the CPU in that system only uses
133MHz FSB & 133MHz memory bus) These were not "matched" or
otherwise identical modules, just three different, random
budget-grade modules I'd picked up nearly free after rebate
a long time ago. No bios settings chanages, memory bus
locked at 100% of FSB, 133MHz and 2.5,3,3,9 timings, not
"auto". Tests ran 4 times, 1st & 2nd score were always
lower and discarded, 3rd & 4th scores averaged (were already
very close).
2 x 256MB modules in dual channel mode = 2032/1948
2 x 256MB modules in single channel mode = 1948/1841
3 x 256MB modules in mixed dual/single mode
(set to use dual channel but above 2 x 256MB
pair it operates in single channel mode) = 2030/1948
We can see from above scores that mixed memory, even with
different amounts per channel, still operated in dual
channel mode. Sandra does not test above 384MB so there was
never a time it operated outside of dual channel mode in the
3rd test.