Spudy said:
Hello:
We have a 15 year old son who we want to limit his computer activity
after school, while he's home alone -- before we get home from work.
We used to be able to just use a key to lock the keyboard with old 386
and 486 machines. But they don't make this like that anymore. Now we
have two an AMD 1.2 GHz machines. One is running Win2000 and the other
one has WinXP sp2 on it. Is it possible to "lock" these two pc's?
Thanks in advance for your help.
Your options here depend on how tech-savy and determined the potential
user is. If he's not very, you can go straight to user passwords, and be
done with it. If he is, the other posters who have suggested BIOS
passwords should thwart a youngster who hasn't ever explored the parts
of the computer that exist behind the GUI.
You don't really define what the issues are, but with 1 15 y/o of my
own, I can make some decent guesses.
However, at 15: this is an age where the most effective technique is
going to be one based on more basic issues outside of the technology
realm:
communication and respect.
I would start be simply telling him that he is limited to "x" activites
for "x" time until you get home (ie, computing but no games, computing
but no online activities, online activities but no adult or P2P
sites...whatever is appropriate for your situation). The parameters are
yours to define as the parent and based on your situation.
As an 8th grader, my own kid was involved in some rather mean spirited
online exhanges with a couple of her classmates. We locked down her
Internet access hard. Only when we were home. Only in a common
room...etc etc etc. The return to unregulated access was very gradual,
and dependent on her performance and behavior in a wide range of
academic and household activities.
Once you have a reasonable expectation of compliance, you probably have
some other tools that may exceed your young one's abilities...
If the issue is related to excessive gaming: You can lock up the
games
If the issue is related to online activities, here are a couple more
thoughts:
Most teenagers know how to clear a browser (and windows recent documents
history file)
Most don't know how to clear a browser cache, which can be a gold mine
for parents looking for insight into what their kids are doing online.
Most don't know how to manage their browser cookie files, which can be
equally telling about where they've been online.
If you are using broadband, most routers include both password
protection *and* a logging function. If you are using dial-up, you might
want to explore your provider's parental controls.
I trust my own kid *almost* completely, but I don't neccesarily trust
some of the sites that may be sources of spyware/adware, and I do want
to make sure she isn't visiting sites that are potentially --or
actually-- exploitative. I review the router every day, and when doing
routine upkeep on her PC take a look at her history, cache and cookie
files.
I realize that many parents are behind their kids when it comes to
personal computing hardware and information technology, but for their
protection and your peace of mind, it's worth devoting some effort to.
Appropriate compliance with a parents stated expectations are far
superior to most technology solutions!
Good luck, and happy Thansgiving....