For Outlook 2000
A return receipt will not be returned if the receiver of the email does the
following:
From the menu, select
"Tools"
then
"Options"
then
"Other Tab"
then select the
"Preview Pane Button"
then
Uncheck: "Mark item as read when selection changes"
Uncheck: "Mark messages as read in preview window"
Assuming all of these steps have been followed, you can read your mail in
the preview pane
without worrying if someone has requested a return receipt. Please note, if
you delete the message
a return receipt will be sent.
I keep a "never open" folder to move messages that I think have a return
receipt request.