Well, you could return an Excel spreadsheet with an appropriate mime
type, and with any luck Excel will launch. That's the best you can do
though, as far as I know.
That entirely depends on your newsreader. The way I've got mine set up,
it's sorted by subject.
It just makes things a bit messy. Not a big problem when one person
does it - just not nice when lots of people decide to do the same
thing.
I'd thoroughly recommend using a proper newsreader if you can. I use
Gravity, which is free, and allows me to easily see replies to my posts
etc via rules.