AA2e72E said:
I assume you are refering to Barry's reply; it was valuable until his
statement "Do you own homework - it's not hard!"
And yet your reply included "Your answer adds nothing." Hardly a vote
of thanks, is it?
Originally, I took that to
mean do your own research rather than his suspicion that I might be a student
trying to get the forum to solve my problem.
No, it was saying: "I've given you all the tools you need to do your
homework, now come up with the answers yourselves."
You also invite me to realise that 'they' are helping 'me': If I did not
know that, I would not have posted the question and I don't see how "Do you
own homework - it's not hard!" was helping me.
You've already admitted that right until the last line, the response
was helpful.
I do not think newsgroup respondents have any business being prescriptive;
Have you noticed how you're being prescriptive yourself? You're trying
to tell the participants of this newsgroup how to behave. How is that
*not* prescriptive?
they can
1. ignore a post,
2. or resolve it,
3. or show a better resolution of a solution provided by another respondent,
4. or refer them to a link that has the solution,
5. or simply hint at a solution.
Similarly, you could have:
1) Ignored Barry's post
2) Acknowledged the value in it, but explained gently how it wasn't
homework in reply to the last line
3) Read the post carefully, several times, until you understood the
answer
Instead, your reply was basically rude.
It becomes very interesting and a valuable source of learning when scenario
3 comes into play.
As far as I can see, that is how the Excel newsgroup works (have a look at
he responses from Tom Ogilvy, also an MVP). And, as I see it, none of us
actually invent solutions, we simply adopt or adapt what is there; we are all
learning, even MVPs are in the same boat albeit further downstream. So there
is little justification for claiming the high moral ground faced with
'simple' or 'naive' questions.
Simple and naive questions are almost always answered kindly. Homework
questions (as yours *looked like*, even if it wasn't) are usually
answered in a way which would teach the student how to get the answer,
rather than by giving the answers themselves. From a few posts I've
just read on the Excel group (admittedly from 2004) it's an attitude
which is taken there as well.
No doubt it would have been better if Barry had put "We won't do your
homework, we'll just help you to do it yourself" instead of "Do you own
homework - it's not hard!" but I hardly think he deserved the reply you
gave. I suggest you reread that reply and consider how you might feel
if you'd received it from someone you'd been trying to help.