G'Day Gunga,
Having a (Bluetooth/IrDA/Serial/USB......) connection
means only that your PC and Mobile are CAPABLE
of communicating - you still need one or more PC
programs to IMPLEMENT and control the communication.
For example, I currently have a Sagem (french) mobile.
The manufacturer supplies/recommends:
WellPhone for Phonebook/Appointments/ToDo etc
(I transfer to/from Outlook).
MPAS (MyPicyuresAndSounds) for multimedia objects.
You need to contact your Mobile manufacturer.