Tony -
you can also use netstat.exe to see all TCP connections being serviced by a
particular server at a given point in time... is your cluster configured in
"single" affinity??? if so, then a given client should always map to the
same NLB host so long as the NLB cluster membership does not change - if it
does, the client may begin being serviced by another node...
as jack mentioned, if you want to just generally monitor the load on a given
NLB node, then use perfmon to monitor the number of active TCP connections,
or connections per second, or some other relevant load indicators...
hope this helps...
cheers, sean