my wife is cheating on me

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How can I see what e-mail she has sent, or is there a log for seeing what has
been sent to who? Thanks in advance
 
Windows XP does not have a log of email sent.
You'll have to logon to the account in question
and see if there is a record in the "Sent Items"
folder. If your wife was smart, she already deleted
those emails.
 
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DougC said:
How can I see what e-mail she has sent, or is there a log for seeing
what has been sent to who? Thanks in advance
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Wow, talk about TMI. Have you tried *talking* to her about this?

Remember, as a wise man said, "There are seldom good technological
solutions for behavioral problems."
 
How can I see what e-mail she has sent, or is there a log for seeing what has
been sent to who? Thanks in advance
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Confucius say, "Man who loses key to wife's heart get no new-key!"
 
DougC said:
How can I see what e-mail she has sent, or is there a log for seeing what
has
been sent to who? Thanks in advance
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If she is using Outlook Express you can setup a logfile that she may not
notice.

Goto "Tools" > "Options" and click on the "Maintenance" tab.
Near the bottom under 'troubleshooting' you will see a check box for "Mail".
Check this box and a logfile will be created that shows you everything she
sends.
If I am not mistaken the file will be named "smtp.log"

HTH
 
If your wife is cheating, spying is certainly not the answer. You might find
out something you don't want to know. What ever her reasons are, its probably
not your fault. Some people are just that way, male or female, they simply
don't have the proper chemical balance to be honest.
Good luck, dad2ten
 
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David Candy said:
Invading someone's privacy because some thinks someone is doing
something.
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So which one is worse? cheating or spying? I think Lanwench addressed it
best. TMF!! This is a peer support newsgroup where people come for technical
information, not a lecture. If the person asked how to log his email
activity to see if it was being abused they would get the same information.
The OP's transgression was giving TMI.
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Spying. Two wrongs don't make a right. Suppose he shoots her, how will you all feel then? Suppose she divorces him for spying and she has not been expressing her love for men. Suppose he beats her up every night (his attitude is a bit sus) and she is merely seeking emotional support.

It is an offensive post I think.
 
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David Candy said:
Spying. Two wrongs don't make a right. Suppose he shoots her, how
will you all feel then? Suppose she divorces him for spying and she
has not been expressing her love for men. Suppose he beats her up
every night (his attitude is a bit sus) and she is merely seeking
emotional support.

It is an offensive post I think.
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So do I, and why I said Lanwence addressed it best. TOO MUCH INFORMATION.
This is a peer support newsgroup not a place to pass judgment, I didn't
reply to the OP, I replied to you, with a 8-). Some people answer the
questions without passing judgment. Some don't answer if they don't want to
judge. But everyone is entitled to their opinion and you are very much
entitled to yours.
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: How can I see what e-mail she has sent, or is there a log for seeing what
has
: been sent to who? Thanks in advance
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: Doug

Not unless the emails are kept, and if she's clever enough to compact the
email data file after deleting emails... More difficult, assuming your using
Outlook or Outlook Express.

DougC, it is indeed stifling when a relationship reaches a point when one in
it no longer wants to be involved, leaving the other in complete shock. It
makes one realise that in this world nothing belongs to us. Confusion will
turn to anger and depression, then behold, convalescence and the new person
emerges. Why have a book DougC, when there are libraries, anyway that's the
future for you.

Are you an Administrator on the system? You should be able to reach in and
grab yourself a copy of the her email data file and check it out. Even
easier if you share it.

- Winux P
 
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Windows XP does not have a log of email sent.
You'll have to logon to the account in question
and see if there is a record in the "Sent Items"
folder. If your wife was smart, she already deleted
those emails.
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True, but depending on what E-mail client was used, it's highly
likely that "sent" messages can be recovered. I'm assuming, of
course that hubby has admin priveleges...
 
DougC said:
How can I see what e-mail she has sent, or is there a log for seeing
what has been sent to who? Thanks in advance
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Spying on her is not the answer. If she is commiting the crime of going
behind your back, why commit a similar crime? If you are caught she can
claim abuse etc. etc.

You two have trust and fidelity issues and need to see a ***good*** marriage
counsellor .. pronto.
 
Michael said:
So do I, and why I said Lanwence addressed it best. TOO MUCH
INFORMATION. This is a peer support newsgroup not a place to pass
judgment, I didn't reply to the OP, I replied to you, with a 8-).
Some people answer the questions without passing judgment. Some don't
answer if they don't want to judge. But everyone is entitled to their
opinion and you are very much entitled to yours.
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Good point. I said to go see a marriage counsellor. But upon reflection, I
realize it is none of my business. I should have just answered the question
or moved on.
 
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