may be i should clarify that all inbound traffic are
either forwarded to the corresponding ip (i.e. mail and
stuffs) or forwarded to a 'phantom' machine.
Ok, that shouldn't be anything to cause you trouble.
at home, behind zonealarm and already set to allow
connection from work
For your first test, I would strongly advise disabling zonealarm completely
to make sure it's not interfering. 2nd, make sure (on both machines) that
the built in XP firewall is completely disable. This produces a lot of
headaches for us an our customers whenever there are any connectivity
issues.
About Zonealarm, I can say that when I first set up my home network, even
though I 'knew what I was doing', zonealarm gave me more headaches and would
cause more headscratching (I suddenly can't connect any more) than it was
worth. Zonealarms a good program for single computer, but once you have a
home network behind a router, careful configuration of your router/firewall
security will do extremely well for protecting yourself.
The next step would be to attempt to 'ping' your host computer at home and
see if you get a reply. Again, zonealarm in its default state will block
all ICMP (ping) traffic and therefore will make it look like there's no
machine at that address. So again, for the initial testing phase, I
strongly suggest turning zonealarm off to get a good baseline.
Lastly, and most simply, make sure the 'terminal services' service is active
and running on your host machine at home. I read a lot of messages from
people on this group simply being unable to make an rdp connection to their
system at home. With XP, this is extremely simple and robust- so I have to
assume that most of the people here are misunderstanding something subtle
about network communications or their setup. Let me know what you find and
we should get you going with little trouble. Good luck.
Paul