No. There's nothing to apologize for.
When you are offensive-- even if you didn't intend to be
offensive, polite adults (both apparently don't apply to
you)
apologize.
You seem to be suffering from the "I always gotta be right"
syndrome. You also seem to be suffering from the "I gotta
have the last word" syndrome.
When you post poor advice, be prepared
I did, and I did. I didn't expect-- nor will I tolerate--
being lectured for an apology.
As in, you seem to have NO CLUE of when to quit.
We *all* make mistakes. And when we do, we almost always get corrected.
Once, not twice. You, like Quentin Tarantino, are evidently
into EXCESS.
I hate to make a mistake that needs correction, but it
sometimes happens.
Interesting. Yet you have made SEVERAL mistakes in your
dealings with me, but you continue to refuse to be corrected
or to apologize.
We don't all respond to a swat on the nose like a pet dog.
When
it does, I *want* to get corrected, because if I don't, I am left believeing
something that's wrong.
I got the correction some time ago.
Your LECTURES you can keep.
Or did I not make that clear twice already?
If you are unhappy with that, and expect people to let your bad advice
stand, then you are in the wrong place.
If you think that you are king of the hill in here, you are
sadly mistaken. The world does not revolve around you.
Nor do you reserve exclusive rights to being right all the
time, or to having the last word merely because you breathe.
I am sure I could find more than one person who could run
circles around you with his knowledge of computers. One such
person is my friend Bruce, a computer systems analyst. He
thinks you're full of caca.
I mentioned some of your advice to him, and he chuckled and
said, "consider the source."
Stay away from newsgroups. You'll
find that many people will correct you much more strongly than I do..
You LONG since lost the right to correct me.
As I said, King of the Hill, I will give you the same
respect you give me. Give none, receive none.
You obviously haven't been listening. I counted roughly 3
replies to this very thread that were less than flattering
of YOU.
Of course, your head is buried so deep you likely didn't
think they could POSSIBLY mean YOU!
(they did)
I really don't care how nice you are to me.
Deal! You be a jerk; I'll return same.
What I care about is that you
post helpful accurate information.
If you don't like my advice, feel free to not read it.
You can HARDLY stop me from posting in an unmoderated group.
As I said, as much as you think you own the world, I'm one
you will never control.
You are merely a bully with some computer knowledge. And
I've been known to eat two bullies for breakfast each day,
with raspberry jam.
I tried to give you some constructive
advice as to how to do that in another thread,
Yes you did. Perhaps it's the approach.
When you start off with, "that was STUPID advice, you
idiot", it's gonna be downhill from there,
stupid.
but you took that as talking
down you, which was not at all the way it was meant.
Well, I happen to have a degree in communications. And what
you MEAN is overshadowed by what you SAY, and by how you
communicate it.
What you COMMUNICATED was, "you're an idiot whose advice is
less than worthless."
I DO know how to partition a hard disk; I also know how to
format one.
And with all YOUR TWEAKING, the partition/format is
typically FASTER and MORE PRODUCTIVE than spending 5 DAYS
with YOUR approach.
The PROBLEM is, you don't like to give an inch to anyone
whom you perceive "knows less" than you do.
Practically speaking, I know 10 times more than my son, who
is still in high school. But he continues to teach me
technology,while I continue to solve his hardware / software
problems.
What YOU haven't figured out is that I may just know a thing
or two YOU don't know, given the chance.
But it is VEYR unlikely I'd help you dig a ditch with your
"you know nothing/I know everything" attitude.
And I DID mention that I have mental health issues, AND I
know I'm abrasive. That part didn't even PHASE you.
Meaning YOUR need to control and dominate is both unrealized
on your end, and untreated.
And if there's one thing I don't tolerate, it's you control
freaks!
I'll be happy to be nice to you. I don't enjoy fighting with people, either
here or elsewhere. But that doesn't mean I'm willing to let misstatements
stand. To do that would be a disservice to others in the newsgroup.
There is mis-information that is NOT hurful, and there's
misinformation that IS hurtful.
And RATHER than say, "Tal, that information is GARBAGE",
try, "Tal, I don't think that's going to work. This would be
a better approach..."
Did you notice (did you even BOTHER) that a dozen OTHERS
have
#1 corrected me with, " Tal, that isn't the way to do it.
Try this..."
And I thanked them.
#2 they simply didn't even COMMENT on my comments, but wrote
the BEtTER advice and left mine unresponded to
?
I got it.
Without them pointing a finger at me.
You simply MUST mash the bug flatter than a pancake BEFORE
you move the food!
How about you move the food and leave the bug alone? That
little bug isn't hurting anything!
I'll tell you what. In the spirit of reconciliation, I'll accept that I
might have been softer in the way I presented my advice,
That is all I asked! And an apology! Hey, there's no
bigger jerk on the planet then yours truly (me).
But when someone says, "Hey, Tal, that wasn't cool, dude!"
I stop, regroup, and APOLOGIZE.
and I'll reiterate
that it was meant as helpful constructive advice, not as a lecture nor as a
finger shaken in your face. If you took it that way, I apologize for perhaps
inadvertently giving you that impression.
THANK YOU!
Was that so hard?
And you gave more than ME that impression!
Ken, does it occur to you that you are dealing with 100 guys
in here from 100 different backgrounds, many of them don't
even speak English?
If you go running around with a sledgehammer, you're doing
more harm than you think I am.
Pretend that each person that you are talking with in here
is your wife on your first date, if you can remember that
far back. Be as sweet as sugar, hoping (excuse me everyone)
you'll "get lucky tonight" if you "play it right."
We each deserve to be treated nicely until we act in a way
that DEMANDS that we NOT be treated nicely.
And I had just poured myself out to you, telling you
INTIMATE details about me--- hey, guys, I'm mentally ill!
I'm trying, but I have problems, and I'm abrasive."
You come back with a sledgehammer.
"Ease up!"
k?
But I still urge you to reread my message and its content. It will help you
with regard to getting along better, not just with me, but with everyone
here.
That's interesting, ken. You're still blaming ME for YOUR
misbehavior!
I apologized for mine. You refused to do the same.
And everyone ELSE who has responded THUS far,
has had ONLY nice things to say to me,
and they all told the rest of YOU "chill!"
As gently as I can put it, Ken, from a psychology background
(my other degree), you are suffering from "who, ME?" denial.
I'll give you some advice I got a LONG time ago.
No matter WHAT ugly things someone may accuse you of, say,
"Hmmmmmmmm. I WONDER if there is ANY truth to that ugly
remark."
And then, PRETEND that when that guy called you a "Mo Fo",
you ARE a Mo Fo, and do something to change that.
??
(and I'm not a hater, Ken. I'm on your side! I just
sincerely want to get along with EVERYONE in here, not just
a few of you.
I also have found you can be a real resource, if you'd just
get over yourself!
;-)
Good luck!
Tallahassee