There are two locking strategies relating to the editing of records,
optimistic locking and pessimistic locking. The former (No locks) allows two
users to edit a record concurrently. The first user to save the record can
do so normally, but other users get a message when they try to save the
record, allowing them to refresh the record with the other user's changes or
to replace the record with their own edits. I imagine that this is the
message toy are referring to.
Pessimistic locking (Edited Record) locks a record as soon as a user starts
to edit it, so other users can't make any changes until the first user saves
the changes and releases the lock. This is the option you should use. The
record selector changes to a Ø (slashed O) icon to alert the user. No
trappable error is generated, so you can't otherwise inform the user; its
important to leave the form's RecordSelector property as True therefore.
Change the form's RecordLocks property to 'Edited Record'. You'll see that
there is also an 'All Records' option, but that's not relevant to your
situation.
Ken Sheridan
Stafford, England