Maybe you missed the high points of my post.
1) Bring objects to the same electrostatic potential. They don't
have to be grounded to achieve that. Merely both be at the
same potential. That is why the wrist strap is fastened to
the chassis of the computer - it is to bring you, the object
in your hand (PCI card in antistatic bag), and the chassis
to the same potential. If they're at the same electrostatic potential,
there is no net current flow when they touch. No net current
flow, no damage.
2) If two objects do have to be brought together, and you
don't achieve (1), then a high resistance series resistor
should be used for charge equalization. Using a bare
hand isn't good, because a damp human hand is in the 100K's
range. And you want something up in the 10Megohm range to
help the charge equalize slowly. A good wrist strap will
have a reliable, high resistance value in the discharge
path (the wire with the clip on the end). The antistatic
bag has a high resistance per square, to achieve the same
effect of providing a series resistance.
Neither of those requires ground. The objective is equalizing
the potential of all objects about to touch, so no damaging
levels of current flow (the big ESD "spark").
Let's try a web article.
http://www.esda.org/basics/part3.cfm
"A primary means of protecting of ESD susceptible (ESDS) items
is to provide a ground path to bring ESD protective materials
and personnel to the same electrical potential. All conductors
in the environment, including personnel, must be bonded or electrically
connected and attached to a known ground or contrived ground, creating
an equipotential balance between all items and personnel. Electrostatic
protection can be maintained at a potential above a "zero" voltage
ground reference as long as all items in the system are at thesame
potential. It is important to note that non-conductors in an Electrostatic
Protected Area (EPA) cannot lose their electrostatic charge byattachment
to ground."
You'll notice there, that while you can use ground as a convenient
reference point, it has no intrinsic protection value. It is just
a way of saying "lets make all the objects in this room, have
this particular electrostatic potential". When I use my computer
chassis, wrist strap, and PCI card in antistatic bag, that is
my closed system, where all items are equipotential. So while
that web page may have left the improper impression there
is something magic about "ground", it is the "equipotential"
we seek to achieve.
HTH,
Paul