I don't know Lasse, I never said hey Lasse can you tell me how to do
this?
Yes, you did. When you posted your question to a public newsgroup that
he's known to read, you did.
The fact that you didn't direct your question straight at him is
irrelevant.
I posted a simple question with a yes/no answer. Thats it, very simple.
And Lasse offered very specific advice as to how you could not only get an
answer to your question, but how you could avoid looking like you're just
wasting people's time in the future.
Of course you wouldn't because thats how you speak to others yourself.
It's true, Lasse's comment didn't sound a lot different from something I'd
say myself. So?
You are being overly sensitive, and frankly extremely arrogant to continue
to believe that there was absolutely nothing wrong with your own behavior
in spite of two different people suggesting there was.
Okay, you are trying to tell me how to handle my response.
I'm trying to offer advice, yes. You seem too defensive to accept it, but
it's there nonetheless.
I don't see anywhere
where are saying Lasse, you should have just said yes or no, you could
have
handled it better Lasse.
Why should I have? You're the one who's clearly posting in anger. What
point is there in criticizing someone who's just trying to help you?
If Lasse had said to me FU, and try it yourself.
Your response would have been the same.
Now you're engaged in lying. Do you really think that's the behavior of a
mature, polite individual?
The difference there is he did not act like someone with no upbringing
and
decided to speak in whatever tone he wanted.
I'm sorry. I didn't realize you had the voice option enabled on your
newsreader.
How, exactly, was it that you determined what "tone" it was in which Lasse
was "speaking"? Did he actually call you on the phone and read his post
to you himself?
Again, you are blowing this way out of proportion and reading way too much
into his post.
I bet you money if Lasse was
in my face he would NEVER!!! respond to me like that.
I'd take that bet. Frankly, I see that sort of comment all the time, but
the fact is for the most part people write the same words that they would
say.
What _would_ be different is that you would have heard his actual tone,
rather than inferring the worst-case scenario yourself.
Another sign of an immature or impolite individual is their inability to
give someone the benefit of the doubt. Which is exactly what you're doind
right now.
He would simply say yes you can, or no you cannot.
I'd bet he'd tell you to go try it yourself, just as he did here.
Being on the computer behind the scenes
seems to give people reasons to be disrespectful whenever they want.
Well, it certainly seems to have given _you_ the feeling that you can be
disrespectful whenever you want.
Be careful not to project your own personality onto others though. Not
everyone thinks or acts the same way you do. Just because you're being
disrespectful, that doesn't mean everyone else is.
And you always have someone who defends it.
Sounds familiar?
Nope. I'm certainly not defending your disrespectful behavior, if that's
what you mean.
Believe me I am not in the slightest way defenseless.
Really? Then why did you post the question? Why are you so helpless that
you need someone else to tell you whether some proposed idea you have
would work or not?
Frankly, I think both replies were about as helpful as you could have
expected, and they both basically said "try it". You've gotten upset over
nothing. If nothing else, that's just not good for your health.
Pete