Okay that clarifies a bit.
First of all, the default mode(I think you meant isolation level) is
ReadCommitted for both SQL Server and Oracle - not Serializable.
Secondly, this approach won't work. When you start working with hierarchical
data, you need to add rows from the parent table first, followed by adding
the relevant child rows. Updates need to follow adds, because you could both
add a new master row, and modify a detail row to use the FK of the newly
added row. But updates need to follow the same path Master->Detail. Deletes
however need to follow the reverse path, or you will simply get FK errors,
because details need to be removed before the master can be.
Not only that, in this scenario, you would have the delete page locks
causing locks with inserts and updates page locks, and if you lock too much,
the db may end up locking tables - so essentially you cannot predict what
transactions cause locks in what.
So what do you do?
Well obviously, you need a different persistence mechanism, my book's
chapter 10 explains dealing with hierarchical data in detail. But in short,
you need to respect the relationships in your persistence mechanism - in
addition to rowstates. A few things you could try are using non clustered
indexes, and controlling the connection opening yourself rather than having
the dataadapter do it for you. That *may* help

, but not necessarily in
all situations. Search my blog for "Pessimistic locking is your friend" for
a detailed explanation on the ideal solution for hierarchical data. That
pretty much describes the ferrari approach - the mostest perfectestest
solution. But you may just be okay with a Honda. Anyway, there is more to
this than I can type right now in a newsgroup reply, but I gave you some
pointers to poke around on
- Sahil Malik [MVP]
ADO.NET 2.0 book -
http://codebetter.com/blogs/sahil.malik/archive/2005/05/13/63199.aspx