Hi there,
thanks john, that sounds about right, i was able to do this before i sent my
pc in to fit a fire wire, last but not least, where would i be able to find
digital rights manager??????
Now that's a good question, lets have a look for a good answer

Windows Media Player
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There are two places you must visit (as far as I can tell) to disable the
Rights Manager...so here goes.....
1st Tools > Options > Privacy > Acquire Licenses Automatically For Protected
Content should be unchecked
2nd Tools > Options > Copy Music > Copy Protect Music should be unchecked
For loads more info on Digital Rights Management open the help file select the
search tab and enter "Rights Manager" without the quotes of course.
MusicMatch
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I was going to tell you how to turn it off...I have the latest "paid for"
version 8.2 and there is no reference to Digital Rights Management, and I am
sure that I once turned it on and off again when I realised what it was. If you
have an earlier version then Options > Update Software Please take note though
that this may not remove the Rights Management from existing music.
I can't help with any other software, I discovered MusicMatch, liked it and
stopped looking.