ever scince the new update for windows defender

windows defender every time the computer starts up tells me changes have been
made. iv allowed it but it keeps asking me! i click it and its america
online as the publisher. this is the aol 9.0 not security edition. and its a
service and drivers change. i know that aol always changes something when u
start up because spybot asked me that before except it had a remeber
function. windows defender doesnt so it asks me every time! how do i make it
quit asking me about it?