displaying a sitemap in different lists based on node

I am using the default XML provider for the sitemap. I need the sitemap to
display in different lists seperated based on node. Here is an example
sitemap that I have.

in web.sitemap (the list of main site nodes, I have this:

<siteMapNode Title="Navigation">
<SiteMapNode SiteMapFile="~/EternityRecords.sitemap" />
<siteMapNode siteMapFile="~/InHim.sitemap" />
</siteMapNode>

In EternityRecords.sitemap I have:

<siteMapNode title="Eternity Records">
<siteMapNode url="AboutUs.aspx" title="About us" />
<siteMapNode url="ContactUs.aspx" title=Contact us" />
</siteMapNode>

In the sitemap InHim.sitemap I have:
<siteMapNode title="In Him">
<siteMapNode url=http://www.inhim.eternityrecords.org#Bio title="Bio" />
<siteMapNode url=http://www.inhim.eternityrecords.org#Audio title="audio" />
</siteMapNode>

Does anybody know how to do this?