See this article for why this is happening:
Internet Explorer ActiveX update
http://support.microsoft.com/kb/912945/en-us
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Jon R. Kennedy MS MVP/IE
Charlotte, NC USA
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"Worldbeater" <(E-Mail Removed)> wrote in message
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> This just randomly started today when I started my computer up.
>
> Before, I could open a web page with a control like a flash application
> and
> it would start automatically. Now when I load a page with a control, a box
> forms around the control and when I move my mouse over it, it says "Click
> to
> activate and use this control." When I click it, it is normal, but ever
> time
> I go back to the page, it happens again. This gets very irritating.
>
> Is there a setting I can change to make it like it used to be?